Higher Love: the podcast with Reggie and Jodie Howard

Ep 43: Beef

Episode Summary

Have you ever started an argument with the person you love just because… well, you can?? 😂 Yeah, I’ve been known to do this from time to time What can I say??🤷🏽‍♀️ If you know anything about my personal archetypes or my natal chart you might reference the fact that …. While I’m *mostly* a peaceful enneagram 9, I also have a strong 8 wing 👊🏽 Enneagram 8’s, known as The Challenger, are self-confident, strong, and assertive. They revel in challenges and are well known conflict starters Or maybe it’s the fact that Mars, the masculine planet of strength and supremacy, known for its ability to instigate and take action is conjunct (sits directly) my ascendant -our ascendent represents our outward expression and personality. Or possibly it’s because Aries -the god of war- is my IC, our IC represents our roots, it’s where we came from and also where we go to for comfort. Any who grew up with me knows I can be scrappy as heck and if I’m comfortable enough to be scrappy and assertive with you… you are truly my person😆 Orrrrr could it even be that mayyybe I am well aware of the fact that my scrappy, assertive, combative side is the part of my personality that Reggie is most attracted to?? I’m pretty sure it’s ALL of the above😝🤣😆😬 AlI know is, when this all comes together - oftentimes out of the blue- it’s like 👊🏽🥊🔥🚀🧨💪🏾☄️💣😵‼️ The most amusing part, at least to me😂 is that there is rarely (if ever) an actual end to the conflict😆 it’s the CONFLICT that interests me…not the perfectly tidy solution So naturally, I rarely (if ever) let the subject die because well, as you will hear... where is the fun in that???? Ep 43:Beef is now live